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Beyond Definitions... Choice and Decision

I was recently thinking about living beyond definitions... and more specifically living beyond the definitions of our language. You know, it's so EASY to put things in a box and label them... And while I'm talking about being open-minded, you don't necessarily need to be open-minded to get this concept. I wanted to discuss something today, based on the definitions but more importantly how we live our lives with it. It's the idea of Choosing or Deciding.... I'd lik… Continue

Added by Tom Taylore on October 4, 2008 at 12:44pm — 2 Comments

3 Back To School Tips For Single Moms and Single Dads

It's coming... That's right... SCHOOL!

I know, it's MID AUGUST and there are already commercials on TV and you can't go to the grocery store without seeing ads that say "Get Ready To Go Back To School"...

And while my daughter is slightly under the age to get ready for school we have a close friend who is starting second grade... He's staying with us for the three weeks until school starts, so getting him ready for school has been a topic of conversatio

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Added by Tom Taylore on August 12, 2008 at 2:39pm — No Comments

Murphy, Hillary and Dan… oh my! Single Parenting has come a long way!

Like just about everything else in life, the concept of Single Parenthood is incredibly easy and vastly complex...

That line sounds like I'm trying to sound intellectual and be "Captain Vague" at the same time!

But in all seriousness, I was contemplating the labels we use when it comes to Single Parenting... For example, even the term "Single Parent"... If you're reading this right now and you feel like this aligns for you, you're probably Single and a Parent...

So… Continue

Added by Tom Taylore on August 11, 2008 at 11:19am — No Comments

New Video About A MUST HAVE Communication Skill With Your Ex

Today I finished a new video about Communication for Single Parents...

The story goes a little like this... The other day a friend and I were talking... He's a Single Dad too, but he'd just received a pretty angry text message from him Ex. He was really shaken up by it and he was adding all kinds of crazy meanings to it and was visibly frustrated.

After talking for a bit, we decided to get some clarity around it... and rather than completely dissect it, we decided that we were… Continue

Added by Tom Taylore on August 9, 2008 at 12:09pm — No Comments

Flurping Moonsand

You know, it's funny... some of the coolest stuff is for kids and some of the lamest stuff is for kids...

At a Landmark function about a month ago my daughter met this really cool guy named Alex... Alex is 11 and to a four year old, that means nothing but "good times"...

Alex brought a toy into the party that was called Flurp... It was kinda like "slime" they had when I was a kid. Basic… Continue

Added by Tom Taylore on August 8, 2008 at 11:38am — 2 Comments

I am a Busy Guy...

I woke up this morning and realized that I am a busy guy…

On top of a full-time job and raising my daughter (who isn’t quite in school yet) I am Selling my house, in a four month Landmark Program, I do videos for my website and I play in a band!

Of all these, selling the house is t… Continue

Added by Tom Taylore on August 7, 2008 at 4:45pm — 1 Comment

Finding Your Single Parent "Genius"

As Single Parents, we have one thing in common... We are raising children on our own.

And I've acknowledged before that each of our situations is unique and special.

Today I wanted to talk about something ELSE that is unique and special.

And that's what I'm going to call your "genius".

Your "genius" is something that is unique and special that you do... It's something that you are a MASTER of and something you LOVE to do.

Yeah, sound pretty BIG eh?

No

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Added by Tom Taylore on July 30, 2008 at 8:02pm — No Comments

Creativity and Coffee...

I have a question for you...

When are you most creative?

In the past I've written about Morning Motivation and how preparing for your day can boost you from average productivity to a powerful day...

And I must confess... at WORK I'm not horribly creative...

As I've mentioned before, I work in the world of IT and things like DNS and adjusting server notifications don't len

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Added by Tom Taylore on July 24, 2008 at 12:03pm — 1 Comment

How To Avoid The Imaginary

Have you ever been presented with a challenge that seemed like it was IMPOSSIBLE to over come?

Have you ever instantly jumped into "reaction" mode because you didn't think there was anything else to do?

I know I have...

But then you actually go through the thing and you say to yourself "man, that wasn't that big of a deal?"

This might sound like a relatively simple idea, but keep one thing in mind when a new challenge arrives: You are seeing it from YOUR perspectiv

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Added by Tom Taylore on July 14, 2008 at 10:11am — 2 Comments

I Am Influenced By Television...

I have to say, that I don't watch alot of television... So when a friend makes a recommendation I try to follow through and check it out...

I was recently told about a show called 30 Days in which Morgan Spurlock... the same guy that did the McDonald's Movie "SuperSize Me".

The premise of the show is that they take someone with a strong view and p

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Added by Tom Taylore on June 26, 2008 at 8:05pm — 1 Comment

Painting The Door White...

I recently put my house up for sale... and it's been a challenging ordeal to say the least...

Being a Single Parent there are a few things that I have to deal with that parenting with a Partner would make easier... which, on the surface is following around a four year old and picking up toys that she leaves out...

As with most of the things I do, I found a "zen" type moment when I was painting the door.

And I wanted to share it with you.

It all starts the day I sig

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Added by Tom Taylore on June 18, 2008 at 11:21am — 2 Comments

Living From The Possibility Perspective

The concept of Possibilty is a huge one... But one that I wanted to start blogging about.

In fact, I feel so strongly about the idea of Possibility that I'm about ready to share with you a new perspective on LIFE!

And if you haven't had a chance to really study this and wrap your mind around it, there is no time like the present... ha ha!

Possibility, as defined by American Heritage dictionary and

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Added by Tom Taylore on June 11, 2008 at 3:20pm — No Comments

How To Be The Guardian of Your Perception and Awareness

Anyone who has read my blog before knows that I'm a big advocate for honesty and integrity.

I really believe that coming from a place of "authenticity" with any aspect of your life will give you the freedom that allows for self-expression and being aware of yourself.

My intention (and the reason I write this blog) is to give you the "straight talk" to get you on a good path. Notice I didn't say the "right" path or place you in a "correct" frame of mind...

I believe that e

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Added by Tom Taylore on June 7, 2008 at 9:05am — 1 Comment

3 Tips For The Ultimate Kid DVD

Every year I make a DVD of my daughter. I've used them as Christmas presents for about four years now...

Not only are they fun to shoot and assemble, but my family loves to get them!

The DVD consists of pictures, videos, drawings and other fun stuff that I get throughout the year.

I know, I usually write about "woo-woo" or a little more "esoteric" stuff... but hey, I'm a practical guy too! ha ha!

The DVD's are great because it's a unique and intimate way to share y

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Added by Tom Taylore on May 29, 2008 at 9:13am — No Comments

Investing and the Single Parent

Recently one of the many things I've been getting into is "investing"...

And like most things, I research as much as I possibly can before making an informed decision.

Investing and finances is no exception... and while I don't personally have a lot of money to invest, I do put away a little bit from each paycheck.

And trust me, I am the first person to admit that I'm NOT an expert when it comes to investing.

However, I did write a bonus book that's a companion to

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Added by Tom Taylore on May 19, 2008 at 11:35am — No Comments

Emotionally Intelligent Questions

I spoke in my Podcast recently about something called “Emotional Intelligence”… And just to recap, it’s one of those things that can’t be taught… Just like having “street smarts” can’t be taught… there are a few things in life that you simply learn on your own. I was thinking about this in relation to being a Single Parent, and what that meant to me personally. It’s those moments of reflection… Continue

Added by Tom Taylore on May 16, 2008 at 9:48am — No Comments

Daily Discipline - Conquering Your Day

This week I’ve been talking about starting the day off right… and why it’s important to lay a foundation for the day that leaves you ready to be productive. I shared some very specific tips about things I do to make sure that my day is focused, my mind is the proper space and get ready for the upcoming day… This was in a blog from last week. I got some really positive feedback after reposting to my favorite site iHeartSinContinue

Added by Tom Taylore on May 14, 2008 at 9:00am — No Comments

Making Up The Rules As We Go Along...

The other night I was watching three other kids besides my daughter… This was a grand total of four kids. Not a rare occasion, but a blessing nonetheless! And on this warm spring evening I made an observation that was pretty keen… at least on my part. I mean, hey, if you’re not going to toot your own horn, who is? Parents with kids over the age of five are going to laugh at me, but hey, I can take it! ha ha! See, I even laughed at myself. Okay, back to the story… I was watching three of th… Continue

Added by Tom Taylore on May 13, 2008 at 8:02am — 2 Comments

The Cycle of Distraction

As much as I like to avoid the “negative” there is something that I have to get off my chest… And no, it’s not a “Bad Tattoo” or a reference to a Springtime cold! ha ha! I am convinced that we live in a “cycle of distraction”… And what I mean is that amid the flurry of MySpace Comments, buying Ring Tones and eMail, it’s hard to stay focused on the tasks of the day, let alone make long-term plans for success as a Single Parent… While some of this might not directly affect you, it’s more of an… Continue

Added by Tom Taylore on May 12, 2008 at 1:28pm — 3 Comments

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