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Thanks for your reply. I did contact him and did decide to give him another chance with our daughter. He has agreed to take both anger management and parenting classes. I did expalin to him that he either needs to be a constant figure in her life ...
Hi Sara,
You have a lot of advice here already. Most of it seems pretty good advice too. You seem like a smart young lady with a good head on your shoulders. You also, however, sound like you still have a lot of hurt and some love left for this m...
then why even post the question?
He chose not to earlier. If you want to punish him, then the answer is not to reply.
If you want to allow him to choose now, then you should reply.
If he does it again, that is a different story, but you indicate...
My question is..... is he a danger to your daughter? I know that you state that he has anger issues, but does he hurt people when he is angry or does he have a short temper? As long as he is not a physical threat to either of you, I do not see any...
K well sorry but no he can't just pick and choose when he wants to be a father why would anyone be o.k with this? wow
kids are tough, and they adapt more than parents give them credit for.
If your daughter was 11 then it wold be a worry, but at 3 you might be surprised at how well she handles it...
one of the best replies I have ever read!
Well done Scott. Seriously well done.
Sara: you could do a lot worse than following this advice.
yea i understand having a semi-present father is better then non at all. but if he abandons her for a few years here and therewith absolutely no contact then it's not worth the confusion for a barely 3 year old.
This group is for advice for any women on here who wants a man's perspective on anything at all.
> if abandons her again to not even think about getting back in contact with us. Because it's not fair to confuse such a lovely young child.
It's less fair to take a child's parent away 'cause they're not all you hoped they'd be. :(
If he's dang...
Thanks again for all the advice i really appreciate it. I guess i will try and let him back in her life very slowly so we do not confuse her too much... It will be confusing for her of course no matter what but i will try as ahrd as i can to make ...
Im a guy hi Sara, and let me just say i would NEVER take him back in the end it's your choice of course see my ex would pull the same garbage when her new relationship was not working out so well she would try and see if she could get back with me...
I can definately see where you are coming from. It's nice to have a guy's point of view on this. but i have taken into consideration that his anger also did affect my daughter so i do not think that i am being too pushy about the he needs to chang...
My ex was the same way in the sense that he would much rather have fun && do the easy thing [hanging w/ his friends] rather then the hard difficult things [helping be a father to our son]. what you have to keep in mind is your daughter. which of c...
Hi Sara!
> So yesterday i get an email from him saying how he misses us and would like to be back with us.
Sweet. Some dads are perfectly content to leave their kids fatherless, which is a real shame for both father and child.
> I'm kinda hesis...
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- At 12:55pm on April 13, 2009,
Scott said…
- Hiya Sara. Welcome! I'm glad that you've joined our community and I hope that you find a lot of support and encouragement and input from others!
- At 8:55pm on April 12, 2009,
uomeasmile (Kim) said… - Hello Sara. Welcome to iHeart. You will find lots of resources, advice, and friends here. Have a blessed week.
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