I think your best bet is to just leave it all alone. Don't ask for support, don't go to court, don't do anything. He's not on the birth certificate so he has no rights unless he asks for a paternity test and then he has to pay for it. Even if you ...
Did you go to court yet? How did it go?
Stay on track and do not let the emotions get in the way,easier said than done but just focus on what is best for the child. If there is a hint of a fight most judges will order custody and or psych evauls o...
I agree with the post above about the emotional things. Just focus on your daughter and try not to get to caught up in his drama. Maybe one day he will come around. She does need her daddy but until then just be strong and protect her from the pai...
two key phrases for a court to give a damn about anything you say:
PROOF and CHILD'S BEST INTEREST
if you want them to hear why you think he shouldn't have visitation, you need PROOF. if you have mutual friends who are willing to sign affidavits ...
i really dont want him in lillys life. I would rather do it alone I am hoping the courts can do a test on him, i was reading up on bi polar and pathological liars and he has all of the symptoms, so hopefully an expert will be able to determine tha...
Well the he might be allowed to pay support and you could not set up anything else but it would lead tyo in the future him changing his mind and say " If i am paying support i should have visition" if he would agree to sign off on rights i would n...
yea i have thought that he is for a while now also. I honestly would rather not have anything from him than to have him be around lilly. He is also, in my opinion a pathological liar so if they did do testing it wouldnt surprise me if he managed t...
YES THAT LETTER WILL WORK. In my case when me and my oldest sons momw as together and she took off with him across state line i got emergancy custody due to the facrt i kept all papers. The letter she wrote my aunt saying she was afraid she was go...
does anybody think the letter he wrote and signed will be helpful when he wrote he didnt want visitation, custody, etc. ?
i am also going to take a copy of my phone bill that will show he doesnt text or call about lilly.
Agreed with Jen. Always keep a journal and copies of EVERYTHING. No matter how it may be going. If you stand in front of a judge without dates or copies of issues you testify about, it doesn't help with your case. Keep your strength and do not get...
thank you! no we were never married...
yea when he texted me and said only text me if she is dead or sick i saved that. I am starting to write down a list of reasons why he shouldnt get visitation. They told me when i signed the petition that i ha...
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My name is Nicole, I am 19 years old, I had a daughter named Lilly on march 12th 2009 and I am loving every minute of being a mommy. I born in Scotland and moved here when I was 9. Going to school for nursing.
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I do not expect to get much out of thi...
I know i look like a nut but putting this all down actually helped me get my own answers.
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