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  • somewhere in the western usa
  • United States
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I agree. I did not expect my ex to not see his kids. he was close with them. But at least now he pays what he owed then. When he did see them later, he grabbed my son with a look that was just amazing. This is one thing about our society that is s...
4 hours ago
I dated men much older and younger. The latter one was 2 yrs that lasted a long long time 7 yrs. But theo odd one was when I was in my early 30s. Met a guy but he lied about his age Said he was 29 was barely 21 and only a a few years older than my...
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Ok. i found out that what i got in a legal document served was really not legal. What was filed did not match. In Canada this is bad as it is here. It is called false service. I posted this because in most states you have to hire a process server...
yesterday
that made it easier. my son was in the military and while they are gone they have to sign over their kids to someone and or power of attorney.
yesterday
What should you look for? 1) How does he see you, himself and everyone else in around him? What he tells you and how he sees you go hand in hand. You will not know how much he loves or cares for you unless he can communicate that with you. 2) How...
on Thursday
I would get a good book on divorce on this. I agree with the guys. A friend's granddaughter who is a clepto had this look until she began therapy. She would come to visit with grandma and try to steal stuff from my daughter. I caught her everytime...
on Thursday
WhisperingWinds added 2 discussions to the group Ask a Man ANYTHING!!
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Good questions cause its seems i have a huge magnetic device stuck to my butt and i attract every thing but a good guy... learning what to look for would be great.
on Wednesday
Because we often do not know that the person is bad when we met. I just started a topic on this on the ask men side. I realize some women have not met a good man or seen one so they simply do not know. Me, I realize the quiet ones are the most d...
on Wednesday
And here, ladies and gentlemen, we offer the "suckiest man in the world" award... and the winner is...
on Wednesday
Capt 152 and WhisperingWinds are now friends
on Wednesday
That's great news and justice will be served in your favor.
on Wednesday
AHA! I KNOW THE opps the no one reason he is not going through court...... I went through the divorce file he filed in Canada and what he served me with was a. not matching what i got served A big legal no no. No wonder the lawyer then refused t...
on Wednesday
Start your own play group. Find a support group and meet new people. Try to open up. I used to by very shy and timid and I learned if continued to be that way no one would know if i was alive or dead. Start by smiling at others or saying hi. I fir...
on Wednesday
He will get angry that you violated his personal space by finding the pics and emails. from travis. this is what i tried to endure for years. it does not get better. ever. in fact he will get more angry with you. my ex wanted my email password...
on Wednesday
WhisperingWinds added a discussion to the group Ask a Man ANYTHING!!
I got the call from the court in Canada i was waiting for. The mistake he made he did twice in my favor. Good for me not so good for him. It means he will keep his house and i will get the other thing I wanted. I almost made the clerk deaf with ...
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How many kiddo's do you have?
2
Best thing about being a Single P...
Not having to worry about a fight.
I'm here for:
Testing the Waters as a New Single
What are your hobbies and interests?
Writing, reading, research and weekend road trips time with family. Learning about technology my moutains, yes they are mine!
What type of music do you like?
, I love disco, some rap, for the beat, Some classical some opera, pop, almost anythng but country. Sorry, and no heavy metal.
About Me:
Single parent, once again. Have a high tech degree, write pt for a living and work in the education field pt.
My Gender
Woman
Age
fortyish
Kid's Ages
over 18
City (or nearest Big City) (This will allow members to search for you by location)
Salt Lake City
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Step 1 where to get help

So, if you have a custody issue and not sure where to turn the first places I recommned is first your local courts.

Many now have online forms and self help centers. The forms are easy to fill out. You do have to pay for a process server which is usually less than 50 USD. Some places it is less.

Contact your state or county bar association who licenses lawyers. I will be posting links for this as well.

For those who have a foreign born spouse, warning, the US does not have legal treaties with… Continue

Posted on October 19, 2009 at 10:02am — 2 Comments

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At 12:35am on November 14, 2009, Eduard said…
Hello Winds.
Sorry I didn't folow what's up. How was your trip?
At 4:34am on October 29, 2009, alexpv507 said…
Hello! I'm doing well. I took my son to the YMCA's child care area last Wednesday's visits. I think it will work out alright, so I'm just going to get a membership. There were lots of kids out there in the play area. He needs to learn to be around other kids. Like most toddlers, he thinks every toy is his.
At 6:35pm on October 26, 2009, Janer said…
i'm not wise...just in the same boat as you. My ex has been clinging to whatever form of control he could grasp for over a year now. If that meant making me feel like a horrible person for dumping him, or telling me i am a bad mother, or making me think he was going to kill himself, or threatening to take my daughter from me...he did whatever he could to just not let me have any control of the situation. i know that is his motive because when HE is in control he is nice...but when i am in control he calls me a control freak or a dictator. It took me almost a year to really get that until someone compared him to an abuser. He's just like a man who won't let his wife have any money to spend so that he can control her life, who threatens her to keep her there, who tears her down to keep her needing him. It's all about control. And that's why i told you to fight to the death. you need to show him you are not his to control anymore. and you need to show it to yourself. :)
At 9:30am on October 21, 2009, Megan said…
just realized we are not even friends! oye!
At 12:27pm on September 18, 2009, endora schmidt said…
Kids Costumes
At 9:09pm on August 6, 2009, Daniel Brudvig said…
Thanks! I am trying.
At 5:46pm on July 6, 2009, alexpv507 said…
Thanks for the add. Hope you had a nice 4th of July weekend!
At 10:22pm on June 8, 2009, Ron said…
Welcome to iheart
 
 

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