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  • somewhere in the western usa
  • United States
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last post for the day. I finally found a lady in a shelter there who can help me. i have to call back on mon. to help sort out all the paperwork and give me an idea of what to do and what i cannot do. then she tells me this, shie said this more c...
4 hours ago
lmao. kidnapped funny. we need classes to get married. if you pass the test you get a license.
4 hours ago
You must answer my quesion re assets and income in my last email. I am not for hire. I am a staff lawyer with legal and all i have done by email is above my mandate. You have to use your money to ge a lawyer to come to the case conference event an...
8 hours ago
Got this now. I am putting this here because when I mentioned it sounds maddening. It is. they use some terminology not common here or used here. The letters are from a lawyer in the courthouse that is supposed to help you do it yourself but they ...
9 hours ago
wow. i just got another email back from the lawyer. she has agreed to get a law student to help me. i said i cannot afford the cost and have tried and tired on my own to end this. how manyl laywers i spoke to. so wish me luck. it means i would pa...
11 hours ago
Been trying sort this out. Tried to hire laywers. they say ok then they say no. This is what a legal aid lawyer sent me. i am trying to get the divorce now settle financial stuff later. because he filed and now is refusing there is no default thin...
11 hours ago
Certain changes to the Child Support Guidelines took effect on 1 May 2006. These are discussed in the next chapter, Child Support > The Guidelines. For most people, the changes will result in an increase in the amount of child support payable. No...
12 hours ago
http://www.metrac.org/programs/info/tororg.htm posting some legal help for hte area. if one ever needs them.
12 hours ago
So i found the cost formula they use for self represent people. It is higher than I thought. 275 an hour. I just saw where a judge ruled harshley on a person refusing to settle. Good for me bad for him. It turns out an asset we have to split wil...
13 hours ago
I got another email telling me to stop doing the divorce myself and that ONLY a high priced lawyer can do what I am dong. To stop doing research. I would like to if a lawyer would take the case on. Several say the wil lthen they stop because of t...
14 hours ago
Ok, here one for parents if you need to apply for SSI www.ssa.gov The financial rules for this change when the turn 18.
yesterday
omg the typos.sorry. so unless agrees we can be married for a long time. holy moly! not happy at all.
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http://allrecipes.com/HowTo/Budget-Friendly-Recipes-for-Ground-Beef/Detail.aspx here is my fav tips fiood on a budget try to find or creat a child care cooop in the area. you trade off care with each other. even co housing is an option.
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Has anyone used the reward or postive behavior thing. I wors. pretty well. I used to use a wheelchair for when she had bad transition anxiety works very well.
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Oh i wanted to say too if your kids get seizures some ofthe m will go away. My daughter had a few when she was younger and thent hey e left. Thank god.
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How many kiddo's do you have?
2
Best thing about being a Single P...
Not having to worry about a fight.
I'm here for:
Testing the Waters as a New Single
What are your hobbies and interests?
Writing, reading, research and weekend road trips time with family. Learning about technology my moutains, yes they are mine!
What type of music do you like?
, I love disco, some rap, for the beat, Some classical some opera, pop, almost anythng but country. Sorry, and no heavy metal.
About Me:
Single parent, once again. Have a high tech degree, write pt for a living and work in the education field pt.
My Gender
Woman
Age
fortyish
Kid's Ages
over 18
City (or nearest Big City) (This will allow members to search for you by location)
Salt Lake City
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Step 1 where to get help

So, if you have a custody issue and not sure where to turn the first places I recommned is first your local courts.

Many now have online forms and self help centers. The forms are easy to fill out. You do have to pay for a process server which is usually less than 50 USD. Some places it is less.

Contact your state or county bar association who licenses lawyers. I will be posting links for this as well.

For those who have a foreign born spouse, warning, the US does not have legal treaties with… Continue

Posted on October 19, 2009 at 10:02am — 2 Comments

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At 3:06pm on November 27, 2009, Richard said…
Hi whisp
hope all's well as for me the flu is running its course take care and ttyl.
At 12:35am on November 14, 2009, Eduard said…
Hello Winds.
Sorry I didn't folow what's up. How was your trip?
At 4:34am on October 29, 2009, alexpv507 said…
Hello! I'm doing well. I took my son to the YMCA's child care area last Wednesday's visits. I think it will work out alright, so I'm just going to get a membership. There were lots of kids out there in the play area. He needs to learn to be around other kids. Like most toddlers, he thinks every toy is his.
At 6:35pm on October 26, 2009, Janer said…
i'm not wise...just in the same boat as you. My ex has been clinging to whatever form of control he could grasp for over a year now. If that meant making me feel like a horrible person for dumping him, or telling me i am a bad mother, or making me think he was going to kill himself, or threatening to take my daughter from me...he did whatever he could to just not let me have any control of the situation. i know that is his motive because when HE is in control he is nice...but when i am in control he calls me a control freak or a dictator. It took me almost a year to really get that until someone compared him to an abuser. He's just like a man who won't let his wife have any money to spend so that he can control her life, who threatens her to keep her there, who tears her down to keep her needing him. It's all about control. And that's why i told you to fight to the death. you need to show him you are not his to control anymore. and you need to show it to yourself. :)
At 9:30am on October 21, 2009, Megan said…
just realized we are not even friends! oye!
At 12:27pm on September 18, 2009, endora schmidt said…
Kids Costumes
At 9:09pm on August 6, 2009, Daniel Brudvig said…
Thanks! I am trying.
At 5:46pm on July 6, 2009, alexpv507 said…
Thanks for the add. Hope you had a nice 4th of July weekend!
At 10:22pm on June 8, 2009, Ron said…
Welcome to iheart
 
 

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