Friends, Networking, Testing the Waters as a New Single
What are your hobbies and interests?
Politics and women's issues
About Me:
I am struggling with learning how to do it all on my own. I started a nonprofit organization to sterilize homeless animals, and I am a therapist for children in foster care.
My Gender
Woman
Age
34
Kid's Ages
0 - 2
State/Region (This will allow members to search for you by location)
IL
Comment Wall (13 comments)
You need to be a member of Meet Single Parents - i Heart Single Parents Social Network to add comments!
just saw your comment on the "so annoying" issue!!! what you experience is perfectly NORMAL...its GOOD that he does that!!!! its when the parents drop them off and they show NOTHING ...and when they get picked up and they dont want to go home!! thats when you have a problem....that means something at home just isnt right!!!
stay strong ... the separation anxiety gets less and less...but it truely is never over...my daughter is 6 and she will still get upset when i drop her off!!
Thank you for the comment you left on my blog I appreciate the advice. I have 2 weeks vacation now and am going to focus on Ruth and having some time to relax and set some goals. Thanks so much.
It will. You know, the walking thing is kind of a blessing because even though you have to watch what's out to get into, they are much more self-sufficient as far as playing alone and not needing that constant entertainment you know? That sucks your ex isn't taking up his responsibilities.
I do now. My dad is close and watches my son once a week. It's taken me awhile to build up babysitters, back-up childcare, etc. He is in preschool during the day so that's set. I catch up on my sleep and cleaning on the weekends lol, during the week, anything goes! I hear ya about the bar scene. I'd much rather listen to some good music and have a few drinks than bar-hop all over town. Well hey, point of this site right!- we aren't too far apart. If you'd ever want to meet up with kids or to take a mom's night out, let me know! :)
OH yes! Very! I hope you have a good support system, family, friends, good babysitters, etc to help out? It does get a little easier the older they get. At least as far as not worrying SO much lol :) Also learning to not feel guilty for wanting 'me' time.
Well, hope you have a great day!
Oh yes, this job is never easy, right? :)
My son just turned 4. I take him to the Children's Museum in Normal every once in awhile. Ooo and to The Coffee Hound :drool: :D
thanks for the comment. My lawyer said no until he can take care of them himself, than he can't take them. I already did the paper work with welfare for childsupport last nov. and still nothing. even worse he moved from out old place a two months ago. I do fear that when they do go back to seening him, he like to manipulate peoples to get what he wants, i am afraid when my kids are older he will do that. he is sick in the head. you have no idea. what man goes and religiously marry me, yet he is married to the other girl. doesn't say a word until things don't go the way he wants than throws it in my face. ...and she allowed him to live with me, even though she is legally married to him. EWWWWWWwwwwwww.. LOL
Hi Kim... I truly think that it's important to forgive. My husband died a year and a half after our divorce and I was able to forgive him and talk to him before he left. I think that was the key to my closure. On the other hand, his parents have don…
Thank you so much for the feedback. I will definately keep it in mind. And like I said, I know I have another year to go, but I thought I'd just snoop around for now for tips and info.
I see you are in Dubai and coming back.
it can be a pain moving a household I did two car loads of stuff and exported my car. I agree with the person in MN i Need one other person for support. my exbt was not that, It is why I want to move to Buffa…
YEA his former lawyer just wrote back and he is dropping him. To get itn writng is good.
Mediator lawyer just called she is going to try to contact him and they told me that if he agrees we can get a settlement agreemnt turned into the actual divor…
My kids are going to their mothers for Christmas break, so I am going to Washington. My best friend is stationed in the navy there. I Have been single for about 3 years now and this will be the first vacation I have taken as a single man. I was wond…
Comment Wall (13 comments)
You need to be a member of Meet Single Parents - i Heart Single Parents Social Network to add comments!
Join this Ning Network
stay strong ... the separation anxiety gets less and less...but it truely is never over...my daughter is 6 and she will still get upset when i drop her off!!
I do now. My dad is close and watches my son once a week. It's taken me awhile to build up babysitters, back-up childcare, etc. He is in preschool during the day so that's set. I catch up on my sleep and cleaning on the weekends lol, during the week, anything goes! I hear ya about the bar scene. I'd much rather listen to some good music and have a few drinks than bar-hop all over town. Well hey, point of this site right!- we aren't too far apart. If you'd ever want to meet up with kids or to take a mom's night out, let me know! :)
Well, hope you have a great day!
My son just turned 4. I take him to the Children's Museum in Normal every once in awhile. Ooo and to The Coffee Hound :drool: :D
View All Comments