from the other side...ther dumper, not the dumpee...when i left my ex i'm sure he felt as you do ...How could i be so cruel as to abandon him and his family? Unfortunately, he didn't make much effort to convince me to stay until after i left. Unti...
WOW Just the theme of my life . My heart is in total shambles and it has been that way for a long time. I shed tears at least once a day missing what was and will never be again. Life was so much better then. I found this today http://video.google...
I'm so sorry for you Todd. I pray God gives you the strength and courage to keep on going, for your, your kids and our Lord's sake. You reminded me of my need to PUSH! God bless you. Margo.
Don, you know I love you to pieces... BUT... I don't thrive after breakups or go on sex binges. Eewww. I would prefer to say... take a sewing class. Just my two cents.
You are not alone. I am asking myself the same question. I stayed in on the 4th just because of that. No matter where I go I am always surrounded by happy couples. I see them laugh and smile. I see families playing together. I see wedding rings on...
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Don't dwell on what ''I'' did wrong. Jen is right. It takes TWO to make it work. Take it one day or on step at a time. ''We'' are not alone. Lee
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I have no advice.But I agree it is hard to go throw past things and memories.I give my prayers.It has been 7 years since my D-day.I whent throw anger,resentment,rejection and a flood of emotions.Sometimes all at the sametime! It hearts alo...
In reading a lot of your posts, you seem to take the blame about the break up of your relationship. It takes two to tango - while you can look back and see the things you would have done differently, you seem to be missing all the things that she ...
You're welcome. I'm not trying to minimise your pain Todd, it's just that when a person acts that way toward us there isn't very much that we can do about it. We find eventually that we are better off without them, and if we get honest we start to...
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I am 37 and just became a single father. I am very honest and still have enough heart to give. I work as a machine tech and ave been in te same line of work since te early 90s. i enjoy many things. More to come......
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Your comment brought tears to my eyes. I'm in the process of moving, and every object seems to hold memories... precious memories. Never in a million years would I think I would end up divorced. But here I am! I guess we have no choice but to pick up the pieces and start again. I do feel your pain. Hang in there.
Hello Todd, I saw your shout out question... "Do you eventually get over being alone?" I have such mixed feelings about that. To put things in perspective, I am in the middle of a divorce that has been going on since July, and we are just now separating. I think I'll have to force myself to find new friends, activities, and hobbies. But it is so hard when the person who is supposed to be the one: the one to share with, the one to talk with, the one to cuddle up in bed with is no longer there. My thoughts are nothing lasts forever. Being lonely is just plain sucky, but try and use it as an opportunity for growth. I wish you peace and love.
Big City Dad Just looking for those in the same boat as me. Grateful for my life but most people misunderstand what we single parents have to deal with
ok i just saw this, and this is why the ex is trying not to divorce me either.
He applied for access or visitation and that mean he said he had a bond with my child, not his bio child.
A recent court ruling in Court In ontario showed a women kn...
I shold share an email from the extb. he has constanlty accused me of doing what he has done. going back to an ex. if i was out of phone contact too long he flipped out. because he knew he was guilty of it. he used every excuse to contact exs.
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I work pt as a sub teacher. I am in the same boat. I have some basic basic stuff from a new program the state began. I have looked around myself. Try contacting your state insurance board. Some orgs if you join them allow you to get group coverage...
I know this is late in the game, but...
"Well, he told me that he had a friend over. A female friend. Not sure why if they are just friends why he didn't tell me until after the fact. I guess we will never understand men."
This is a red flag. If...
The mind is complicated thing, and we tend to fight logic with emotion. At one point, we recognize that we need to do certain things, the next... our emotions kick in and contradict what we logically thought.
I have been fighting this with my Ex....