You have already done all of the right things. You are giving the other people in your daughter's life the chance to show their love for her (even if it is different from how you do it), you are improving yourself academically to increase your job o…
Big sigh.....thank you for sharing, everyone! I, for some reason, was feeling alone with this. I know that I've heard the stories of the dad ditching out but couldn't apply it to my situation. Someone asked why I don't talk to him about taking our b…
I love this stuff! I have two boys. One was 7 when we divorced and the other 1. My little guy likes to find my razor and shave his legs. That was the first time that it really hit me that the baby will miss out on some of those boy basics. I'm super…
Why do you feel a need to provide cute qoutes about everything? Don't leave him out of our kids documentation of his live.... you will pay for it later. And, it's really just taking things out on your kid.
How about simple notations like - Dad or D…
I have one. It's one the inside of my ankle, just above my heel (cost extra to have it so low on my foot). My Ex and i eloped to Las Vegas when I was 18. Hours after getting married I was opening a bottle of Sobe. There used to be sayings and/or pic…
My ex-wife had made many (like 20+ frickin') photo albums while we were married (about 7 years). She was full board into it. I have about 15 in my closet. Anyway, it has been about two years since our seperation and she has seen the kids about 4 or…
not sure what you meant by "mental illness"...if that is the reason he's not taking the 20 month old. but i know my baby's dad wasn't interested in her nearly as much as "his other kids"...mostly because she's not old enough or big enough to be FUN.…
We're facing our sons first birthday since the divorce (he'll be 8). I originally though that I'd like all of the holidays and big days to be celebrated together. Then my mom pointed out that one thing he found as an up side to the divorce was havin…
When I married my ex-husband he was going through heroic lengths to win his legal custody of his son. He won and so I thought that when we decided that it was time for us to have our own child that everything would be hunky dory. He checked out of t…
Congratulations! It is such a relief when it's finalized. I have full custody of my two boys and am so grateful for it! Nice job with getting them to school! I'm a teacher and there seems to be an idea that, especially elementary school, that being…
You can do "goodbye" counseling that is meant for helping couples to come to terms with and/or bring a marriage to a close. Instead of focusing on continuing the marriage the counseling guides each person in the process of dissolving the marriage. A…
I have albums for my kids, with pics of their dad. He left when my oldest was almost 4 and my youngest was 20 months old. I want them to remember him for being the fun sweet man he was. They have no contact with him now, and when they do see him aga…
Wow that has to be seriously hard! I don't understand, how can he spend time with one and show no interest in the other. I guess New Mental Illness sums that up. Wow, I'm speechless.
I eloped with my X to Las Vegas when I was 18. It was crazy awesome but I am looking forward to having a traditional wedding when it's time. Huge dress, lots and lots of people, wedding pictures, the whole deal!
The time I spend with my boys is fuller than before.
I'm here for:
Friends, Testing the Waters as a New Single, Dating, Long Term Relationship
What are your hobbies and interests?
I'm pretty crafty when I get the itch to be. When that hits I like to sew, knit and scrapbook. I love books and movies, especially ones that I can share with others. I don't cook as a hobby but I know how to.
I love going to the dog park. I have, since my divorce, discovered that I love the outdoors. I have started walking a lot and may take up racing (requested by my 7 year old).
Board/card games is always fun. I also have started to attend wine tastings. I plan on going to more!
What type of music do you like?
I enjoy different styles of music. I have yet to acquire a taste for country or rap.
About Me:
I kinda hit this stuff in the hobbies section. I'm a school manager and kindergarten teacher of a charter school. I have an 19 month old and a 7 year old.
I'm use to be the one in charge but am looking forward to meeting people that are willing to make plans and decisions!
My Gender
Woman
Age
28
Kid's Ages
0 - 2, 7 - 11
City (or nearest Big City) (This will allow members to search for you by location)
Portland OR
State/Region (This will allow members to search for you by location)
OR
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Hey Susan, Thanks for the note. Yeah, I was only at the prom for like the 1st hour or so. I promised to tuck my little one in that night so my time was limited…but it was great to get out and meet some great folks. Looking forward to more iheart activities. Hope you find the support you are looking for on the site. Tell your Ex to join ;)
I've got five boys, and my youngest two are 6 and 8. There are all kinds of amazing places in Portland to explore the outdoors. If you're in the Beaverton area, I highly recommend the Tualatin Hills Nature Park. I take my kids through there a couple times a week during the summer. It's exquisite.
YEA his former lawyer just wrote back and he is dropping him. To get itn writng is good.
Mediator lawyer just called she is going to try to contact him and they told me that if he agrees we can get a settlement agreemnt turned into the actual divor…
My kids are going to their mothers for Christmas break, so I am going to Washington. My best friend is stationed in the navy there. I Have been single for about 3 years now and this will be the first vacation I have taken as a single man. I was wond…
I agree with Lee. My first husband was a buddhist from a buddhist land. I am not. He, not me wanted our kids to be raised the way I was. Love found a way. for 9 yrs anway! We came from such different cultures but it was not a big issue. My second hu…
Finally got his former lawyer to drop him as a client. A legal formality. It is how I won my first divorce
Same thing happened. But his lawyer told me he had a bad temper. No, really! Then he said what my ex told me that this filing was org meant t…
HI where are you from orign. I moved to Canada once and I have moved to several states.
Most parents do day care. You can have them be picked up via the day care at school. I used to work 9 to 5. Some places have on site after school care in some l…
lol.. I still have another year to go. Plenty of time. But then again, time flies, doesn't it. I agree to what you said about family. Thanks for the moral support.