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Be careful throwing stones and be prepared to have them thrown back at you by the ex. Every detail will be investigated once a complaint has be opened (even referring to your children as "monsters" regardless of affection)
Protection agencies hav...
What Becky said about email\text is my favorite form of communication besides the fact I am a I.T. Professional, I shy away from "conversations" with the ex or anyone that I feel may start an argument or fight. I prefer to make them (and myslef) w...
You are asking nothing but for the stbx to act like the parent and having to hear it from the kids well is just childish on his part. Also, he wants 50/50 the he needs to d0 50/50 this 25 days with Mom and 6 with Dad will end up badly when the kid...
One, why are you calling your kids monsters? Odd, 2, he only has the control you give him and as long as you give him that control he will use it. Three, use the cards, file a complaint, toss his ass in the pokey. He helped make the "monsters" he ...
I find nothing is ever resolved with a fight it only exacerbates the problems and emotions. I was never good at it I will admit it, my ex knew how to push my buttons and get the resulted emotion I think every can do that and I wish I would have re...
Good idea Kim, but I am not sure what i can offer other than a viewpoint from a truly single parent. My ex has nothing to do with the boys, at all. If she sees them twice a month that would be an event. Looking forward to hearing what everyone say...
Children’s emotional well-being during separation and divorce is greatly affected by how both parents work together to provide consistency and stability for the family. Coparenting effectively is the best gift parents can give their children.
Wow there's a lot of anger in these posts, I used to be there but everyone really needs to get over it. I too have full custody of my 2 boys, their Mom made of life choice of heroin and crack over her Sons. Yes I was angry and if I would have seen...
For parents who have their children 100%, no visitations or contact with the other parent... Basically they are MIA. How do you deal with it? the questions from others? How do we keep our children emotionally healthy?
Age is irrelevant if the parties involved have no issue with it. A 45 year old adult can have the maturity of a 12 year old if that is how they were raise. A 26 year old could have the maturity of a 45 year old because they have an old soul for wh...
I see no point, I guess celibacy for me is a better choice because sex ALWAYS leads to emotion, you cannot stop it it is human nature. Someone at some point will get jealous or want more and then it will be so messy because though you both agreed ...
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- How many kiddo's do you have?
- 2
- Best thing about being a Single P...
- Not being married to my ex
- I'm here for:
- Friends, Networking, Dating, Long Term Relationship
- What are your hobbies and interests?
- cooking, drums, computers, soccer, football, basketball, camping, fishing
- What type of music do you like?
- Classic Rock and The Blues mostly
- About Me:
- What is there to say. I am a single dad with 2 awesome boys ages 9 and 13 that take almost all my time. Mom is gone it is just us 3. I work too much and rarely go out and meet people which is something I'd like to change. Kinda boring and I really would like to add some excitement to my life. I am a classic Hippie in all aspects except I grew up and quit drugs in my 20's. When I go out (which is seldom) I like rock clubs (more classic the better) Blues bars are the hottest places to go. Legends downtown just rocks. I have a tight close group I talk to don't need a "posse" just close friends who have my back as I do theirs. Life is good, just hoping to "live" some been in a runt for nearly a decade (very bad marriage) hoping to meet some real cool easy going people and have some fun. Peace
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- 45
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- 7 - 11, 12 - 18
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- Chicago
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- IN
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- http://www.facebook.com/home.php
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I am so frustrated with "Profesionals"
Is it me or does it seem that the Professional people of today. The ones that are suppose to help you just end up sticking it to you and wanting your money?
Without going into a very long backstory, I have spent 6 weeks trying to find out the cause of my 9 year old's struggles in school. The school has said for 4 years he is ADD but I disagree for no reason other than he has only one symptom of ADD and that is lack of attention.
I go to the "Professionals" for help 6 weeks ago, they administer… Continue
Without going into a very long backstory, I have spent 6 weeks trying to find out the cause of my 9 year old's struggles in school. The school has said for 4 years he is ADD but I disagree for no reason other than he has only one symptom of ADD and that is lack of attention.
I go to the "Professionals" for help 6 weeks ago, they administer… Continue
Posted on March 5, 2009 at 8:34pm — 7 Comments
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- At 12:22pm on September 18, 2009,
endora schmidt said…
- At 2:57am on May 13, 2009,
uomeasmile (Kim) said…
- I'm so sorry for the difficult time you are having. Maybe you could repost your questions and we can see if Jen or McKessidy could help you. They both work the system and have knowledge of federal laws... and Don S. is new, but he has twins with autism and seems knowledgeable. Post again... there are so many people who know the resources available, and some are federal law. I'm sending you hugs and warm wishes for peace during this time.
- At 11:07pm on April 14, 2009,
uomeasmile (Kim) said…
- Hello, are you hanging in there?
- At 9:21pm on March 26, 2009,
uomeasmile (Kim) said…
- Waiting lists are awful! Here is a tip... ask them to give you a call if they have a cancellation. Sometimes you can get your foot in the door much faster that way. Stay encouraged -- you are doing great!
- At 12:30am on March 26, 2009,
uomeasmile (Kim) said…
- Hi Paul, How are things going with your son?
- At 2:30am on March 8, 2009,
uomeasmile (Kim) said…
- Hey Paul, I just wanted to drop by and tell you I think you are wonderful for reaching out for resources regarding your son. That ranks as *awesome dad* in my book!
- At 6:24pm on February 27, 2009,
mamamoon said… - Thanks for the comment!
- At 11:23pm on February 9, 2009,
Lesley said… - Thanks for the advice on my blog. I like what you said about picking up and dusting myself off. I do need to do that. I go to church, I'm in school, I work and am now getting my kids and I into a fitness center where we can go to family swim, etc. With my schedule so busy I don't know how I will even have time to think about the ex! :)
- At 3:12am on February 8, 2009,
Audrey said… - Welcome to iheart, Paul. I'm from the midwest. I have some cousins in Indiana.
- At 4:25pm on February 7, 2009,
Steve said… - Hey Paul, welcome to iHeart! I guess there is a few of us left, I'm also a hippie from the 70's also drug and alcohol free. Hope you enjoy the site.
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