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Janer I joined a div forum there in Ont. and one guy finally went to his first case conference. He summarized it well. But things are not all settled. The more I read the more discouraged I get. To much wiggle room to much room to negotiate out of...
if you have the time (and the money) have you tried adventure dating? you could google it. They set up group events that you can go to and do cool things like learn to cook international foods, or even go skydiving if that's your thing. I find it'...
I completely understand what you are feeling! It so hard to split your time but other's have said it, she's being loved by others which is good for her even if she is sick. At least you have family to help even if you don't necessarily agree with ...
i rarely agree when women complain about men's new girlfriends being involved with their kids...but in this case i agree. If he's just "passing through" and has no bond with the child, he needs to do that first before bringing other people into it...
well, i did a little legal info searching for your state, and it turns out that this behaviour (if it's causing you distress) is covered under harrassment for which you can file for an order of protection :)
oh, and since he's the father of your ...
if he's anything like my ex, the answer is that he's just not logical when it comes to emotional things. I told my ex that if he chose to delay court just for the sake of being an ass, he would have to take whatever the court ordered and i wouldn'...
story of mine too babe!
i think the key is realizing that you are a great catch...for a guy who likes all those things and everything else about you, and who you don't find irritating in some way! which makes the chances of finding a guy who thinks you're a catch a bit m...
sure, it makes sense, as long as you set your goal to doing the same and earning HIM. i think it's high time I (and many other women) set our standards a bit higher. Having a man make himself "better" to "earn" me implies i'm WONDERFUL!...which i ...
This is what i kept in mind the years I worked and went to school. That enjoy what time I can with thebabies now, they will not remember me not being there as much when they are younger but will when they are old and in school. Get the schooling d...
i totally agree with Pegasus. I think people spend WAY too much time worrying about the numbers and not enough time thinking about the compatability. A friend of mine in her 50's is just like you pegasus. Active and fit and really has nothing in c...
at least she is with family there were time my kids were in day care when they were little but daycares re strict about being sick. back then so were employers about parents missing work. thank god for FMLA time but they tell me it often does not ...
that's hilarious! a friend of mine had the father of her SON request custody of HIS DAUGHTER. How do you expect to get custody of a kid whose name you don't know OR WHOSE SEX YOU DON"T KNOW! lol
well aren't i shocked to see a post with my name at the top. Too bad you aren't coming to ottawa. i assume you'll be in toronto.
Well i hope your trip is worthwhile and makes this situation progress a little bit for you. I'm glad you are standing...
You have already done all of the right things. You are giving the other people in your daughter's life the chance to show their love for her (even if it is different from how you do it), you are improving yourself academically to increase your job...
Delaine, i was actually relieved when her dad brought her back to me tonight and she was in good spirits and playful. She's doing really well considering her situation (she's sleeping better than i am!). it was good for me to see that.
And Jen, y...
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- How many kiddo's do you have?
- 1
- Best thing about being a Single P...
- the close bond i have with my daughter
- I'm here for:
- Friends, Networking, Dating, Long Term Relationship
- What are your hobbies and interests?
- i forget...i spend most of my time at the playground and the pool! lol! i think i used to like reading, dancing, pool, chatting with friends, stuff like that :)
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- all kinds!
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- I'm a full time student going into my 4th year of Honors Psychology.
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Janer's Blog
Revelations of a Chronically Single Mom.
I've tried dating since i've become a single mom. I even found what seems to be the perfect guy; intelligent, fun to be around, sarcastic (like me), great with my daughter, kind, interesting, and i can stand his presence for extended periods of time. We dated a few months...and i let him go. Just so the fates could prove what a good guy he really is...he even stayed friends with me, and since the breakup has taken me out more than once, reminding me why i dated him in the first place, and making… Continue
Posted on September 12, 2009 at 7:10pm — 5 Comments
Sometimes things fall into place...
I never thought i'd have a child. EVER. i'm sure some of you moms would relate if i said "suddenly i got the urge"...and so, a year later, i was pregnant...and the whole world changed.
A few years earlier, i had finally decided it was time to get myself off my butt, face my fears, and do something valuable with my life. I decided to go to university (at the age of 30) and attempt to eventually be a counsellor. I had a plan...maybe i'd even get a PhD! Whatever happened, i was going to get a degr… Continue
A few years earlier, i had finally decided it was time to get myself off my butt, face my fears, and do something valuable with my life. I decided to go to university (at the age of 30) and attempt to eventually be a counsellor. I had a plan...maybe i'd even get a PhD! Whatever happened, i was going to get a degr… Continue
Posted on August 27, 2009 at 7:04pm — 3 Comments
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- At 3:52pm on October 26, 2009,
WhisperingWinds said…
- janer thanks, for the wise words. This is things in a nutshell. He had said this to me in affect over and over.
- At 3:51pm on October 26, 2009, WhisperingWinds gave Janer a gift…
You words today made the most sense. It echoed what he had said. A honor of my mom whose cancer battle began with breast and ended with pancreatic. You are wise woman Janer!From the Gift Store
- At 7:20pm on October 20, 2009,
Richard said… - Im sorry if it sounded rude, but it really rubs me the wrong way when males pull that crap because it makes us all look that way I hope one day he gets his head outta his butt and changes.
- At 10:19pm on October 15, 2009,
Stacey said… - Just popping in to say Hello
- At 5:41pm on October 9, 2009,
Stacey said…
- Chat kinda died after Rich and I threw out a couple blonde jokes. But, I'm logged into chat for a bit if you feel like chatting.
- At 3:10pm on October 9, 2009,
Stacey said…
- Hey Jane, how ya doin? Is your daughter feeling better? Busy day for me....taking a quick break before I get back to cleaning my house and car.....fun times!
- At 8:35pm on October 8, 2009,
Pegasus said… - Awww, see now...you lay the bait and then blazed (lol)! richard and Stacy pulled out the blonde jokes - it was raucous. Even without 'cha.
Been busy & hanging out on LiveJournal with what little time is left in the day. Purdy turned me onto LJ - gave me an outlet to vent & fume (lol)!
- At 8:18pm on September 27, 2009,
Richard said…
- Going pretty dam good, although work from home has slowed way down so gonna see about getting off my butt and getting a real job again before boredom kills me.
- At 12:53pm on September 27, 2009,
Richard said…
- Just stoppin by to say Hi and how goes the home front.
- At 11:09pm on September 26, 2009,
Melissa said… - Hey there just stopping by to say HI
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Janer I joined a div forum there in Ont. and one guy finally went to his first case conference. He summarized it well. But things are not all settled. The more I read the more discouraged I get. To much wiggle room to much room to negotiate out of...
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