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Holly
  • 36, Female
  • Portland, OR
  • United States
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This is group dedicated to people who want to be happier or share their happiness secrets with others. What are the secrets of happy people? What does research about happiness say? Let's learn the keys to happiness and help each other get happy!
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Conner joined Holly's group
This is group dedicated to people who want to be happier or share their happiness secrets with others. What are the secrets of happy people? What does research about happiness say? Let's learn the keys to happiness and help each other get happy!
September 7
I am a democrat and single mom. I also refuse to kill myself and make my kids suffer They were born into a middle middle class family and we were homeless. Because of my childs disablity. It sucked but I kill myself to keep our heads above water. I…
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sara joined Holly's group
This is group dedicated to people who want to be happier or share their happiness secrets with others. What are the secrets of happy people? What does research about happiness say? Let's learn the keys to happiness and help each other get happy!
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This is group dedicated to people who want to be happier or share their happiness secrets with others. What are the secrets of happy people? What does research about happiness say? Let's learn the keys to happiness and help each other get happy!
June 10
I admit to being a total geek about quotes... I keep a journal of them. This one reminded me so much of this thread: By Dean Alfange From The Flying W Ranch, Colorado Springs, CO " I do not choose to be a common man. It is my right to be uncommon…
May 3
Wow... this thread is sizzling hot. Has anyone else noticed some threads getting personal lately. I know on a site like this it will happen from time to time. But I know I've shrugged some rude comments off too. I hope we can have a good discussion…
May 2

Profile Information

How many kiddo's do you have?
1
Best thing about being a Single P...
Not having to argue with anyone about how to raise my son.
I'm here for:
Friends, Networking, Testing the Waters as a New Single, Dating, Long Term Relationship
What are your hobbies and interests?
In addition to my son, of course, a few of my favorite things include salsa dancing, all Latin dances, men who at least try to dance, men who dance well, people who make me laugh, intelligent people, well-read and educated people, people who introduce me to new and interesting things, teachers, artists, musicians, vegetarians and vegans, literature, Vladimir Nabokov, Ian McEwan, Bollywood movies, Amelie, Being John Malkovich, La Cite des Enfants Perdus, most things unique and quirky, trying to speak French, cross-country skiing, hiking, traveling, Indian food, kissing, the Blossoming Lotus vegan restaurant, Pix Patisserie, swanky bars, offbeat coffee shops, cool places that are truly kid friendly, yoga, massages, karaoke, and indoor rock climbing.

Things I am NOT fond of include hunting, fishing, Nascar, watching most sporting events, gratuitously violent films, drug use, smoking (except perhaps occasionally at a bar), regular heavy drinking, conservatives, and racist/sexist/homophobic or close-minded people.
What type of music do you like?
I enjoy a wide variety of music including Bjork, Elvis Costello, The Cure, B52s, Sting, U2, most 80-90s alternative music, disco, bhangra, The Smiths, Zero 7, Portishead, world music, P.I.L., The Sugarcubes, Depeche Mode, Queen, Abba, Echo and the Bunnymen, The The, Erasure, New Order, The Decemberists, Ella Fitzgerald . . . . most music except country (though Patsy Cline is cool) and metal.
About Me:
I am a college English teacher with a three-year-old son. I would love to meet some other single parents, male or female, for dinners, play dates, or movies, both with and without the kids. Most of my friends are single and chose not to have kids (and are sometimes not comfortable with having children around), or married and see me as somewhat a third wheel in their group of married friends. I need to meet people who are in the same boat as I am!

When not doing child-focused activities, I love indie/artsy films, dining out, hiking, coffee and conversation, going to art galleries and museums, dancing, karaoke, tennis . . . almost anything. I've been single since my pregnancy and haven't dated at all since then, and I am starting to feel like exploring that avenue again as well, but having some friends to socialize with would be a good starting place for me.
My Gender
Woman
Age
34
Kid's Ages
3 - 6
City (or nearest Big City) (This will allow members to search for you by location)
Portland OR
State/Region (This will allow members to search for you by location)
OR
Website:
http://mamasolo.blogspot.com

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Holly

Just When I Thought I Might Start Dating Again, I Saw THIS

Just when I thought I might start dating again, I saw THIS:



Now, I don't mean to be heartless or insensitive to the plight of the Tree Man, but when I discovered that this was, in fact, a real condition and not just someone made up with latex and makeup to look like he was tur… Continue

Posted on November 20, 2008 at 2:56pm — 11 Comments

Holly

Fears of Dying

A few years ago, my friend Erin and I went skydiving. Since it was Erin's 30th birthday, we invited her other best friend, Gretchen, to come skydiving with us. She said something like, "No way! I can't imagine putting my life at risk by doing something so crazy when I have a little boy. I just can't." Neither Erin nor I had children at that point, so we didn't really get it.

Now I get it.

In a few days I am having surgery to deal with a pretty serious skin condition that I have w… Continue

Posted on August 31, 2008 at 3:30am — 24 Comments

Holly

Now, The Only Thing That Reminds Me of Being Young, Drunk, and Childless

Lysol and vomit.

The lovely pairing of aromas wafted through my bedroom as I tried to sleep last night. Once, prior to mommyhood, this would have been reminiscent of a wild night of bar hopping, disgusting public restrooms, and too many drinks with friends . . . or, more often, friends who had too many drinks.

Now, it only reminds me of the little three-year-old person lying next to me in bed, who barfed up a dinner of spaghetti, sourdough bread, zucchini, and strawberry ice cream after… Continue

Posted on August 31, 2008 at 2:54am — 4 Comments

Holly

It All Began with Hot Latin Men Who Can Dance

(To see my blog in its original format, complete with pictures, check out http://mamasolo.blogspot.com)

I had always wanted to learn to salsa dance. When I was 23 and planning my wedding (leading to a marriage that would end only a year later), my finance and I considered hiring a salsa band for the reception because we loved Latin music, despite our distinctly non-Latin backgrounds. We went to watch the band perform at a local salsa club and were so stunned at the skill of the salseros… Continue

Posted on August 27, 2008 at 2:30am — 11 Comments

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At 10:56pm on April 29, 2009, Jen said…
Holly, I just wanted to let you know that I really appreciate your comments about the Paid Family Leave Act. I know you meant well and were trying to give information - sometimes people who have never been in that situation find it easier to find the obstacles and negative things about something rather than having a constructive discussion about it. Thanks for bringing that information to the boards.
At 4:21pm on December 14, 2008, Scott said…
Hey Holly, I replied at my usual spammy length to your awesome comments on the God the Bully thread on my blog. Also, you should call me so that I have your phone number for arranging practices for caroling. I'm at 503-896-3059.
At 6:04pm on December 5, 2008, McKessidy said…
Happy Birthday beautiful mama!!!!
At 7:43pm on November 29, 2008, Tony said…
Um, yes, neutral observation! I think it's just your hair and the angle. Sorry if it came across negatively!

I will let you know when I'm playing again. Hopefully see you again before that. Ciao!
At 6:58pm on November 29, 2008, Tony said…
HI there Holly- Thanks for adding me as a friend; I somehow would have never recognized you from your picture. Funny. Anyway, hope you're having a good weekend, and that next weekend (your b-day, right?) is even better.
At 7:43am on November 21, 2008, Megan said…
hey! how are you??
your son is adorable!! :)
have a great weekend
At 6:10pm on November 20, 2008, Eric said…
Holly, thank you! Yes, that is my hand in the black and white photo. And yes, I did sign up for the single parents group. Am looking forward to an event to meet some new SP's!
At 5:32pm on November 17, 2008, Clare said…
Hi Holly! How was your meetup yesterday? I don't know if you got my message, I am sick with my son's cold! LOL We need to get together soon, I am on for your next meetup. Looking forward to hearing you sing!
At 1:50am on November 14, 2008, Shey said…
Hello Holly, she is someone new...and from the looks of it, someone that I hope will be around for a LONG time:)

In regards to Salsa, I have not had an opportunity to learn yet, but I hope to soon. I would go on Friday, but I have Tyler, which is great! However, the Salsa classes are always on the weekends that I have Tyler...I hope next time will be different.

On another topic, how are you? I hope to see you soon! If I don't, please keep in-touch.
At 4:20pm on October 14, 2008, Anna said…
Let's definitely hang out! I'm up for anything. you're correct in assuming I don't know any babysitters yet, so I'd love the name/number of that nanny! I got your email too, and I'll reply to it. . . I haven't had a chance to tackle my emails yet :)
talk to you real soon!!
 
 

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