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So my ex ws in town this weekend for our son's birthday. I dropped him off at the airport 4 hours early - that should give you an idea of how the weekend went.

I have to write these things down so I can look back on them and remember why I'm not with him.

He talked to his girlfriend (mistress who is now pregnant and lived in our house) and had the audacity to say "bye baby...I love you" Ugh! Then I glanced at his wallet when he was paying for something and noticed that there's a picture of the… Continue

So my ex and our son have the same exact birthday (May3). For the past few months, he had told me that he will promise that he and our son will spend their bday's together. So he told me he would come to Portland from Texas and stay for about 2 weeks. Then he said maybe 1 week. Then last week he told me he would stay for 4 days. Now yesterday, after having a text argument with his idiotic 19 year old pregnant mistress (we are both 34), he told me he's only staying from Sunday to Monday. He has s… Continue

My ex is using major head games with me and his 19 year old pregnant mistress/girlfriend. I'm so sick of it but I know I need to stop playing the games as well - I wish I could get it through my thick skull to stop listening to him, texting both of them, etc. He tells me things that he's going to get me back then other times he says he can't stand me. TOday I found out that his girlfriend uses his phone to text me things. Or he will show her the texts that I send. He cheated on me with her and h… Continue

I am officially divorced as of 2 weeks ago. On top of that it was my birthday month! Ugh. On top of all of that, my 35 year old ex and his wonderful 18 year old mistress have moved to Texas. She thinks he won't cheat on her - Ahh to be young again! NOT! He has started the "I'm not going to give you all of the child support" thing now that I'm not all Nicey-nice with him. I'm so sick of it all. He thinks I'm obsessed with him and that makes me furious. Yes, I loved him with all my heart. Yes, I w… Continue

I'm still in the stage where I'm like " what the f just happened?" I mean, yes, I did just torture myself and went onto Myspace where I saw pictures of my soon to be ex husband and his mistress - just to let you know he's 34 and she just turned 19 - Match made in heaven! And we just had our first son. Good riddance! I feel like breaking down right now. It's not fair - that's what I want to yell at the top of my lungs! But the good thing is that I'm beginning to believe that it's the best that I'… Continue