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So the ex took the gf back home to KC to meet the rest of his family and our friends which are now apparently "his" friends. Anyway! Part of me was hoping that she would have a miserable time and see the real him and leave. Not becasue i want him back, i just want him to experience a little pain for a change. Instead once again im the one who gets hurt. He called tonight to talk to the girls and tells me that the gf is having a great time and wants to move there. Six months ago when all this sta… Continue

So my ex wanted to take my girls on vacation back home- fine we've dicussed doing this and my family would get to see them a little too. However, he wants to go for 10 days over my weekend. I know we can just switch weekends but I'm getting tired of being expected to change my plans to accomedate him all the time, so I asked him to go the next week when I'd only miss two days with the girls. Well of course that wasn't going to work because the gf's husband is going to be in town the week they wa… Continue

I usually don't have an opinion about many things, at least not enough of one to voice it, but this evening I read a post that made me want to voice my opinion. It was a post in response to a post (that has now disappeared) about how a relationship/marriage was sometimes like buying a lemon. The response to it (at least the way I read it) made it sound as though we get divorced because we didn't take the time to get to know the other person before we married them. I think it got me a little fire… Continue