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What's the deal???
I think I will just incorporate this topic into my "screening process." Frankly, if they can't trust me to be friends (and only friends) with my ex, then that is just the beginning of the trouble tha…
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What's the deal???
I don't think even I would deal well with a guy like you are describing and I like to think of myself as pretty tolerant! You are right, apparently there are many trust issues between the ex and his…
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What's the deal???
You're absolutely right so many people with contradicting behavior!
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What's the deal???
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Good Day to all of you wonderful single parents out there! I have had this issue bouncing around in my head and my life for a while now and after responding to Don S. about the “Boyfriend Breakup Mon…
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By the Grace of God I do want to trust again? Should this be free though? and I am looking forward to the great guy out there that will be there for me and I am sure he will have some battles that I would more than LOVE to help him through as well!!
well, concerning trust issues. I do have to say that I have never NOT been cheated on by a guy.. they say you reap what you sow.. but I have never cheated in my life!! So???? My ex talked alot about his ex with me and said that it was because he fel…
It really is about people's insecurities being triggered. Their reactions come strictly from the ego and they go into self-protection/blame mode instead of good hard look at themselves. Getting along and having a functional friendship, espeically wh…
this is what stbx said then i asked another male......
women are not as easily sexually turned on like a guy is. i remember reading this column years ago written by a guy in cosmo who tracked, um,. penis arousal, to different stimuli through the da…
I think I will just incorporate this topic into my "screening process." Frankly, if they can't trust me to be friends (and only friends) with my ex, then that is just the beginning of the trouble that "relationship" is in store for.
It's good to kn…
I don't think even I would deal well with a guy like you are describing and I like to think of myself as pretty tolerant!
You are right, apparently there are many trust issues between the ex and his current, some stems from her past relationships,…
You're absolutely right so many people with contradicting behavior!
Interesting as I have yet to really have this be a problem in any of my relationships. I have been with people who have continued to be friends with their ex's and I have remained friends with many of my ex's throughout my life. If a man has had a p…
I think Janers first paragraph is dead on. I had to endure ex gf, two ex wife, no big deal. It is part of the package but if you have self esteem issues as well it will be tough. I dated another guy who had custody of his son and his ex the girls. W…
i think there's a few possible reasons for it. 1) the person already doesn't trust you (or anyone) to be faithful, so being "friends" with an ex is scary to them. 2) the person already suspects you of cheating, and wants to lay the blame somewhere.…
I don't get it either. I was with my ex for 10+ years... there's a reason it lasted that long, there's a reason I struggled so hard to end it, there's a reason I don't just send her letters through my lawyer. I picked her. She isn't who I want to be…
Simple jealousy. Some people can handle it some cannot and some men thing the ex is just waiting in the wing for sex. I just learned this from a guy and it was interesting.
Good Day to all of you wonderful single parents out there! I have had this issue bouncing around in my head and my life for a while now and after responding to Don S. about the “Boyfriend Breakup Monkey Swinging” on the “Ask a Woman Anything” board,…
Oh, how there are branches on both sides of every tree! To answer your initial question, and I think you already know this answer. In general, people swing from one relationship to another because they are afraid to be alone. This is what results fr…
All the zombies in the world don’t stand a chance against the single parent army that is forming here!
Okay, so I am NOT a Wal-Mart fan in the least. Their professional business practices are shady at best and the way they take care of their employees is horrible. However, it seems the real damage in this case was done by the city/state/county agenci…
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- How many kiddo's do you have?
- 2
- Best thing about being a Single P...
- Problem solving around every corner!
- I'm here for:
- Friends, Networking, Dating, Long Term Relationship
- What are your hobbies and interests?
- I like to spend as much time as possible at the beach, the Columbia River, Oregon zoo, childrens museum, OMSI, Broadway Rose Theater, Safari Sams, Tualatin Nature Park, neighborhood parks or wherever I can be with my kids. The occasional road trip to Nevada is always anticipated and oh so exciting for me.
- What type of music do you like?
- I suffer from some sort of disease that makes me partial to the local struggling musicians of the world. Some of my favorites are listed below, check out their tunes on their MySpace pages -
Robert Finn - www.myspace.com/fellwithadeadthud
Dead Star Poet - www.myspace.com/elideadstarpoet
Jae Nobody - www.myspace.com/jaenobodyofficialmusicpage
By default I am also a supporter of a few of the bands on the local Portland scene.
Rob Wessels - www.myspace.com/robwessels
Merrill - www.myspace.com/merrillmusicofficial
I of course have my favorite big time bands as well - Chris Isaak, Cracker, Barenaked Ladies, Collective Soul, John Eddie, Green Day, GWAR, Marilyn Manson, Jimmy Buffet, John Mayer, Lisa Loeb, No Doubt, Primus, Yngwie Malmsteen, Jaime Cullum, etc.
- About Me:
- I am a 28 year old mother of two. I enjoy reading mostly fiction, get completely engrossed in the select TV series I decide to follow, love to cook, enjoy baking (not the same as cooking in my book).
I like to dance when no one is looking, sing when no one is listening, and smile when no one else is. I like to laugh, and strive to make things as simple as possible for the people in my life.
My children are the light of my life, always so bright and easy to love. I can't remember what life was like before I had them and I would never trade anything for the chaotic love they bring to me.
- My Gender
- Woman
- Age
- 28
- Kid's Ages
- 3 - 6
- City (or nearest Big City) (This will allow members to search for you by location)
- Portland Oregon
- State/Region (This will allow members to search for you by location)
- OR
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YEA his former lawyer just wrote back and he is dropping him. To get itn writng is good.
Mediator lawyer just called she is going to try to contact him and they told me that if he agrees we can get a settlement agreemnt turned into the actual divor…
I hope thw wash people see this.There are several people on her form there. Good luck. Take a jacket!
My kids are going to their mothers for Christmas break, so I am going to Washington. My best friend is stationed in the navy there. I Have been single for about 3 years now and this will be the first vacation I have taken as a single man. I was wond…
I agree with Lee. My first husband was a buddhist from a buddhist land. I am not. He, not me wanted our kids to be raised the way I was. Love found a way. for 9 yrs anway! We came from such different cultures but it was not a big issue. My second hu…
Finally got his former lawyer to drop him as a client. A legal formality. It is how I won my first divorce
Same thing happened. But his lawyer told me he had a bad temper. No, really! Then he said what my ex told me that this filing was org meant t…
HI where are you from orign. I moved to Canada once and I have moved to several states.
Most parents do day care. You can have them be picked up via the day care at school. I used to work 9 to 5. Some places have on site after school care in some l…
lol.. I still have another year to go. Plenty of time. But then again, time flies, doesn't it. I agree to what you said about family. Thanks for the moral support.
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