Share 'Child support, visitation and all that jazz.'

My ex and I are going through the divorce paperwork and I'm looking for some "been there, done that" advice. The money stuff... we agreed on an amount of support about 6 months ago based on the child support calculator that the courts use. Then I got a better job, but my childcare costs increased too, so I reran it while doing our divorce paperwork and it had actually gone up. I know my ex is str…