one small win today

[WhisperingWinds]

I knew that my ex to be had been taking a huge tax credit and was tring to figure out how. turns out in canada they allow the us of us social security nos.
he had been taking a double credit for the last 6 yt and he is ony entitlted to hafl that.
the figure is now in the six figure category . i also found an easier legal way to get him served yeah, and if he has moved how to find him. the end is near. yeah.

basically he got to pay no taxes on 20,000 of his paycheck.t hat is why he put my name on a lease even when i had not lived in an apt. it is why he fowarded stuff in my n ame too. the pig! so 20k times 6 yrs.

[Luis]

Wohooo I hope His reign of terror will be over soon so you can move on , good luck..

[Janer]

if you ever catch up with this guy...this could screw him BAD. fraud against the government is not something to be messed with. KARMA will be all the revenge you need in this one i think. woohoo!

[WhisperingWinds]

thanks.
janer i called his work who tried to tell me iw as common law. not. then they sent me the pension info. i knew he could not save that much witthout claiming me or my daughter under revenue canada rules. i thought of seeral ways he could be taking the credit, but i did not know about using my us social security no. ever year he would ask if i had filed taxes and was not in a hurry for me to wo rk full time here. never mind he was not sending me a dime. now i know why. so when i went back to wokr last year he got more anxious. he actually wanted me to quit my job but god forbid he send me a dime.

[Shannon Barnes]

Awesome news my dear. I'm glad to hear that things are heading in the right direction finally. Hugs sweetie. :)

[uomeasmile (Kim)]

Don't you just hate having to deal with this crap? I'm glad things are taking a turn for the better. Hang in there!

[WhisperingWinds]

This why husband would not agree to a divorce.


Federal non-refundable tax credits (lines 300 to 378)
These credits reduce your federal tax. However, if the total of these credits is more than your federal tax, you will not get a refund for the difference. If, after you have read the information in this guide, you need more details about claiming the amounts on lines 300, 301, 303, 305, and 306, see Interpretation Bulletin IT-513, Personal Tax Credits.
Newcomers to Canada and emigrants
If you immigrated to or emigrated from Canada in 2008, enter the date of your move in the "Information about your residence" area on page 1 of your return. You may have to reduce your claim for the amounts on lines 300, 301, 303, 305, 367, 306, 315 to 318, 324, and 326. For more details, see either Pamphlet T4055, Newcomers to Canada, or Guide T4056, Emigrants and Income Tax, whichever applies.
Amounts for non-resident dependants
You may be able to claim an amount for certain dependants who live outside Canada if they depended on you for support.
If the dependants already have enough income or assistance for a reasonable standard of living in the country in which they live, we do not consider them to depend on you for support. Also, we do not consider gifts you send them to be support.
If you are filing a paper return, include proof of your payment of support. If you are filing electronically, keep these documents in case we ask to see them. The proof of payment has to show your name, the amount, the date of the payment, and the dependant's name and address. If you sent the funds to a guardian, the guardian's name and address also have to appear on the proof of payment.
Line 300 - Basic personal amount
Claim $9,600.


This is a Canadian tax thing. I had no idea he could do this and use my US soc sec. no. This make me so mad! Since we have been split he has not helped me in anway but once at was when my mom died. I paid for her grave marker he gave me some money for that. I wanted him here for the funeral. Then he lied about that.
Someone I know in Canada put the list of possible credits he could got for me even if i was not there andthis is the one i found out the other day.

My motto is now, do not marry a foreign born spouse.

[WhisperingWinds]

ha ha. i just found out tha I can use his income for a tax return here. he did access my info here. i had to make two calls and now i can use his canadian income for taxes here. we have this legal agreement with mexico and canada.

[WhisperingWinds]

well the ex to be is living with someone he may be married. bigamy.
so i am doing whati i should have done in the fist place.

i am going to submit to the courts the documents i have and that is that.

i am done dealing with this.

i know some many not want to date me, due to m y child. i have come to term with that. all i want now is to keep the great support system i have, cultivate new friends. love has broken my heart but my friends are always there.

here is to broken hearts and to true blue friends!

[WhisperingWinds]

Karma came calling! I am soooo happy!
The new gf husband has is mentally ill. i had a long talk with my step son tonight. They say his dad blew up when asked why he did not settle the divorce with me. He said I was lying and when they asked if he was the honest one why not get to court. He blew up again! So tonight they realized i was telling the truth, but they said that since be moved in with this new gf he has become withdrawn and is is not talking.... So, i won. Luis his reign of terror is over with me. I made a hard decision tonight. I realized he is one of those people that cannot be alone, codependant? i am happy in a group or all alone. I realized you have to be truely happy alone to be in a happy relationship.

We all need some heatlh alone time to recharge our batteries but if you cannot bear to be alone that is not good either. I feel like a huge thing has been lifted off my chest. Thank you for letting me rant the last few weeks. It was good therapy. So in 3 weeks I am going to buy a ticket and go visit one of my oldest friends I had not seen in years because of the marriage.

Here is to friends, honor, honesty and I heart single parents!
and i love this place!

[Luis]

I'm happy for you whisper...Let us know how much fun you had visiting your old friend. Oh and GOOD people always get the last LAUGH you proved it .. :D I completly agree with you when you said that we need to be able to be happy alone before we can try to be in a relationship.. My X Never took the time, she too couldn't handle being alone or monogamous for that matter now she's married and had another child and she's miserable because she rushed into who ever took her in, unfortanetly that affects my son Gabriel becuase she's busy with her new life. Had she learned how to be self suffiecient I think we would all be a little happier.. ANy way I love iheart too

[WhisperingWinds]

Thanks luis. I got a call from thier cops today. Stupid. I did find though he had been charged with fraud in the summer. They do not want todo thier job. They were told we were divorced. If all goes well come 30 days from friday this will be over.

Luis, good adivce. This guy wanted me totally helpless for him and I am not used to that. My dad taught me to be mechanical, my grandpa to fix things and farming stuff. My mom did not want me to be wife so i did have to learn how to cook more in home ec and in marriage. I can make some mean asian food!

Hope all is wel with you all. I hear you about in bad situations. i see kids in those relationships suffer. Some men love women like that that just ignore the kids for them. You have to find a good balance of time and kids and man and family needs. It is never easy but doable!

[WhisperingWinds]

The last set of docs were sent via fax to be personally served. I found out via a phone call. the sister in law called, they say they they think this is all fake. There is more, the cops there think I am mentally ill. Why, he told them that. I teach pt! So the cops here and there involved the cops here wrote a report that was not what the Cnd cops wanted. Since the forms were done mostly on the computer but half in my hand writing they think it is all fake. So good let him think that unitl the 30 days are up.

Today with the last set gone and me two bucks poorer I feel a huge huge sense of relief. This is one of the most stressful weeks ihave had since my m om slipped into a coma and died. I going up the mts on friday finding a nice stream to sit and veg out!

A friends friend told me to post what i wanted or needed out this on a site called silent unity, thought it was sorta nutty but this guy said have you not realized that what you asked for is becoming reality. as we talked today, i realized he was right. i passed a big hurdle today as i needed a current address and found it. not me someone else and the problem that happened yesterdy actually helped. i aso did not have to pay to fax the stuff to get it over with. it was 30 fed ex or 30 fax. The court waived all the fees, i did not think they would. Save me 1500 to 15000 in lawyer fees. I am hiring one to do the end o this. IT just got to be too much yesterday.