Jumping for joy he got SERVED in person

[WhisperingWinds]

The process servers would not process my payment until he was served. I just got notified. I am sooooo happy!

He had the other letters and had refused to een OPEN Them!!!!

Ok men he is living with someone else and his ex wife told me he pushed his for the end of his marriage to her and he is dragging this out. Why?

They said they would try to hand it to him on sat and they did. Out some money but i did not have to pay the court fees. But i made 6 bucks in the foreign currency transaction!


There is a god!!!! He got served in front of his new gf! He dd not tell her he was married!

[WhisperingWinds]

If all goes well he will reply and then we get one round of mediation. We split the cost. If not then we go before the judge and try our luck there.
Utah law is that if you do not agree to the terms of the divorce then it is automatically sent to mediation. I like that to keep the fighting to a min they also do mandatory parent education course before you move foward with a divorce to quell any anger issues.

I am curious to have some input from the men what would you have done or what could i have done to settle this sooner?

What do you think makes an enticement for divorce? Do you think that having any money involved is the main reason people do not settle or if there is love on one side that could be a hinderance to a speedy settlement?

I had asked him several times to come up with terms and he refused. He just uncontested divorce. Nothing else.

[Delaine Moore]

Congrats! I know taking legal action is never 'pretty' or something we hope for, but this sounds like an empowering step for you; it;s about letting him know he can't do whatever he wants whenever he darn well pleases, that you aren't a doormat, and like it or not, it's time for him to MAN UP! I can't beleive he hadn't told this other woman he was married - if she's smart she'll see it as a red flag...but that's hers to figure out. Liars and cheats generally stay that way.

I served my ex last week with a Notice of Motion. My ex rejected our terms. Now, he's about to get slapped with a 50-page affidavit that he has no idea is prepped and ready. And though there is no 'joy' in this and its anxiety-producing in some ways, I KNOW it's a vital step towards my freedom in many ways. I wish you luck and a quick resolution!

[WhisperingWinds]

Thanks. thisi s not my first marriage. Saldly. Congrats on gettng him served too.

My first ex hit me with this 25 list interrogatries. He look stupid because he asked the full legal name of his k ids and social ss no.to which i answered, if he does not know this information I am not providinig it He mispelled the one child whom he was fighthing for custody over.

[Janer]

that's hilarious! a friend of mine had the father of her SON request custody of HIS DAUGHTER. How do you expect to get custody of a kid whose name you don't know OR WHOSE SEX YOU DON"T KNOW! lol

[WhisperingWinds]

going to hide this here.
i got the holter monitor test for my heart. not good but not all bad. i k new a bit of an abonrmal beat. people kept saying not big deal. this is more. they are gong to try me on massive doses of potassium. if that does not take away the pvc then they will look at the kidneys. i drink maybe twice a yeer if that. no drug nada. they said i could have been born this way andit never got picked up. i know my heart has been out of whack off and on for years. irony is that when iw as more acitve it was less noticable and that was actually good for the heart. so by next week they will give me big dose of pot then double it. if it is not working then plan b.


i just kept thinking i have taken such good care of myself. avoided a lot of stress and kept active and everyone in my family who abused themselves has better health than me. but at least now i know why i hav enot been feeling well. i have some ins but it is not covering most of this. just some basic basice coverage. so going to cnd to court is hopefully going to help. i kept getting this acidity taste in my mouth thought it was gi stuff. nope. if you ever feel fatigue and notice you thirsty and have a metallic taste in your mouth, ask them to do three test, a cbc, a diabeies test and for potassium levels. especially if you are woman. no one checked mine. i was bummed out last week but at least I know what i have. i feel like gong out, getting drunk, carousing and fornicating!! lol. forget the good clean life! sorry had to l augh or i would cry. i really th ough they would tell me ti was anxiety or anemia or something. not even.

[WhisperingWinds]

k i went to canada. he knew i was coming. he did not tell his gf we were married.a gaint he tried ot have me arrested.i won. not only that but in ont he has to give me a writtne settlement agreement and he has refused. he had to admit that to the cops. he will also have to pay support for my daughter. he did this to himself. the courts will not let him off hte hook for that one.
so i am getting support order without being divorce, i am also the owner of his house. his gf told me it was hers. not even. just in his name and under ont law that means it ismine.
this is a court case like mine.
i will be getting some other payments. i spoke with my step kids and i spent 3 hours in court on friday.
the fact i got sick in court did not hurt. one of his kids has disowned him over this. the other helped me get the information i needed to do battle. i did not ask the court for child support he did that via a request and they court is not giong to let him out of it. he not me is refusing to divorce me. he never told anyone we were still married. so he was upset i came and now eveyrone knows the truth. he told them i was refusing to divorce him. he used me as an excuse to not remarry. pretty chicken imo.

his passivity is going to hurt him. i asked teh cops what he wanted out of this situation and they said he simply asked for help. he did not know what to do. he does he just does not want to make a decision. then two people said he may want to reconcile. to which I almost threw up.


Men, wh at the hell is wrong with this guy! i want this over and he is draggins his feet. In Ont canada they can split the support orderss from the divorce. but he knows the longer we stay married the more it going to cost him and he could have put his gf name ont he house and he did not and the law is clear on this issue.

is freaking nuts? is this like some kind of psycho something?
the law says if my name is not on the house as long as we are married it is part mine as long as he bought after we aer still married. he knew this too. what am i mssing here?

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