Is your Ex here?

[Jim Everson]

I was just curious of any former couples who are sharing custody have both found their way here. How do you manage to keep your privacy and still communicate with other members? If your ex was here before you were, would you flee or sign up? This isn't happening to me, I was just curious.

[Steve]

I have full custody so I'm not sure if I qualify for this discussion but I would like to put in my two cents. My daughters mother is a single parent also, therefore I believe she has just as much a right to be here. If I stay honest when starting a discussion, or when replying to one or a blog then I really have nothing to worry about. As for anything that I might think I want to keep private, the awesome founders of this site gave me IM and gave me the ability to send private messages to my friends. I can also if I choose set my profile to private.

[Heather Mac]

except the private setting is not working for some reason...

[Candace]

I have actually told my sons father about the site and I hope he joins. We could keep our profiles private... but who wouldn't want to tell every single parent you know about the great support you can find here at iheart!

[Clare]

Hey Heather, I have put in a request to Ning on this, but they have ignored me. I will resubmit this.

[Sarah A.]

thanks clare, i'd love to make my page private.

[Angel Christine]

I sure hope he's not here. If he were, I'd probably flee. I consider this my sanctuary. I do keep my responses very honest toward my ex just in case he ever finds this site. There is nothing on here that I would not tell him directly, but sharing this site would be too close for comfort for me.
Angel

[Morgan Siler]

Oh Angel, never flee!!
We need you here-- you are such an incredible part of this community. I am so glad it is your sanctuary.

[Angel Christine]

Thank you, Morgan. You're such a sweetheart.
Angel

[Julie]

I'm lucky that way mine would never find a computer let alone spend any time on a website like this he'd only look up women or trucks if he ever did get online. lol

[Ms. Single Mama]

My ex doesn't know how to use the internet.

Thank GOD. Otherwise, I'm not sure my blog would exist.

[Rachele]

I think unless if I had something to hide I would not care. He says he could not use a computer to save his life but who know that could be another lie.

[J-Fo]

Let's just put it this way...My ex has recently called me and asked me how to:

a) Cut and paste using a Word document; and
b) Add an attachment to an email

Me thinks it'll be about 2065 before he discovers blogs, forums and any other types of Internet chat capabilities. But you all enjoy him when he does! ;)