What does it all mean?

[Alissa]

Sometimes I wonder what my place is in this world. There should be more than routine of living and just getting by. Outside of raising your child, which I know is the center of your life, your joy and pride, the reason you made some of your decisions and where it has taken you...How do single parents find meaning in their life

I've seem to have lost myself and find I cannot offer anything to anyone expect what I have put into raising my son and being stuck in same routine...finding that I don't have any time or not using my time wisely

What does it all mean?

[Angel Christine]

It means that you're human and maybe a bit tired. I start feeling this way sometimes, I think we all do. I feel sorry for myself for a day and then I kick myself in the booty and get moving again. Yes, we're all in that status quo and it does suck. I try not to think of it. I try to take one day at a time and focus on the positives and how things could be MUCH worse. I'm not sure I'll ever "find" myself.... and that is because I'm always changing and growing as a person. So, just know you're not alone.
Angel

[Jordan]

It means you need to dream. Imagine how all this investing you are doing now is going to pay off.

And I like to drink. Inspiration to boot.

[Heather Mac]

yes, i agree with Jordan. Dreaming is so important. i like to dream with my crayons in hand... i like to draw pictures of good things that are coming to me. My other advice would be to journal like crazy. Write and write all the blah bad tired things in your brain.

[JustPeachy]

And here I was applauding the "I like to drink" comment! LOL!

[Angel Christine]

Hm, mix both Jordan and Heather Mac's ideas together. Drunk dreaming with crayons!!!!!!! Now THAT'S what I'm talking about!
Angel

[Alissa]

I daydream all the time about what if or what the future may bring but I can't recall just dreaming like I did in highschool - those dreams about being outside of the body or situations that seem real than morph into the impossible - fantasy/sci fi sort of dreaming (not the drug induced kinds)

[Nina]

Volunteering, you can volunteer however many hours. Hospital, Animal shelter.... whatever suits you. Maybe you could take up a hobby, it could be doing crafts, sewing, cooking, writing... me, I like to excercise. It is my time to get away even if I'm on my Yoga mat in the middle of my living room. Afterwards, my heart is calm, my thoughts are clearer, and I am happier. Find whatever works for you, and stick with it. Could be all you need is a girls night out at the movies, a few drinks, and a good nights sleep! You'll find the answer within yourself, just got to look.

[Alissa]

I started a group but can't even fine the time to do that. (The Portland Craft Group on iheart) but I know about exercising - it's been a long time but I used to run and it would always clear my head however I just haven't had any motivation to do it.

[Steve]

I agree with Nina, Volunteering - especially when its with the less fortunate - is a good way to get out of ourselves. Also at the end of the day after doing so there is such a peace from within. It is so.... rewarding!!!

May peace and love be with you !

[S]

You need a better career! You're spending most of your waking hours - more than parenting, even - at a job; it should mean far more than a paycheck. You should be looking forward in the morning - most days - to the new challenges, and being truly satisfied at the end of the week with how you've made a difference.

[Alissa]

Yes, I've been thinking about that but I just don't know how I could manage it financially. But I do know that is a big factor in the state of mind I'm in right now

[Sarah A.]

i think you should help out with the upcoming march of dimes dinner. it's in giving that we get back. and i don't know about you but right about now, i'm really needing some sarah time that is not completely related to me being a momma.